Our cocktail hour will take place outdoors on the lawn and patio of the club. In the event of inclement or warmer-than-usual temperatures, indoor locations have been prepared to ensure our guests enjoy the day. Our ceremony, dinner and dancing will be hosted indoors.

The dress code for our wedding is Black Tie Optional. We ask that women wear an evening gown or floor length dress and men wear a tuxedo/black suit and black tie or bowtie.

Guests attending the Welcome Dinner should wear semi-formal or smart casual attire. We recommend women wear knee length dresses, a nice blouse, or slacks / pencil skirt. Men may wear a collared shirt and slacks.

For guests driving to the wedding, there will be a complimentary valet car service available. For guests staying at the J House, complimentary transportation will be provided to and from the hotel and venue. Timing will be noted on our Travel page as our big day gets closer!

We ask that all cell phones, cameras, and any other electronic devices be put away during the ceremony. We have hired a fantastic photographer and videographer who will capture every moment of the ceremony that we are looking forward to sharing!

While our motto has always been "the more, the merrier," we kindly ask you only bring a plus one if your invitation has "and Guest". We want to be mindful of our venue capacity and ensure we can visit with all our loved ones.

While we love your little ones, we hope you find our wedding weekend to be an opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate with us. If you would like any local babysitter or nanny recommendations, please do not hesitate to reach out and let us know.

We recommend flying into Westchester County Airport (HPN), located about 20 minutes from our wedding location. As a second option, we recommend LaGuardia Airport (LGA), which is located about 45 minutes from our wedding location. Ubers, Lyfts, and rental car options are available at both locations.